Original Intent with Remy & MonicaOriginal Intent with Remy & MonicaI’ll show you how to increase your ability to confidently process and release hurt while decreasing the amount of pain you dismiss so you can be set free from unforgiveness for good.
Jesus commands this and nearly every Christian pastor or ministry reiterates this. Science even echoes it. So at the end of the day, most Christians are doing all they know to forgive and be free of offense.
But even despite their commitment to health, they lack practical tools and are often simply told or left feeling they should “just forgive.”
What could your marriage, business or ministry look like if you knew exactly how to process and release pain productively?
How much further could you go?
We are a couple of love birds who fought like crazy for our own freedom and healing and were able to take our relationship and impact to the next level. We traded much Christianese (that wasn’t working) for DEEPER RELATIONSHIPS with God and each other and as a result are creating even more IMPACT.
From the beginning, it has been our mission to experience crazy healing that allows us to have even more impact – which meant typical ways we were taught to process pain as a Christian weren’t an option (because that generally meant suppressing pain for the sake of truth–but that only led to more pain, dysfunction and judgment).
We knew we needed to do things differently and became obsessed with discovering how God created us to heal & thrive.
Building crazy amounts of safety with yourself (so you can create trust & confidence)
Learning to tune into what is actually going on (getting honestly honest with yourself & God)
Learning HOW to actually express and communicate (so you can stop holding onto the offense)
Live with resounding confidence that you’ve forgiven even if pain resurfaces?
Have a marriage or relationship that is HOT and RICH with safety and trust?
Create kids, employees or staff that are even more equipped with tools to increase their own emotional health?
Feel even more connected to the love of God (to actually feel it at greater levels)?
Know exactly how to respond productively to whatever offense may come?
Have even more tools and skills to help others experience greater levels of forgiveness and freedom?
THIS BOOK IS THE FIRST STEP IN MAKING THIS YOUR REALITY.
When your ability to forgive is dependent on your ability to suppress pain, you’ll stay in pain and unforgiveness.
You’re a slave to denial!
And that’s not TRUE FREEDOM.
The 5 untaught phases of forgiveness will allow you to:
Release Pain & Increase Confidence
Demolish doubt
Facilitate healing for others
Be even more present with your family
"I've had therapy, I've had counseling. I've had different things and just nothing goes in and addresses the heart wounds.
When I had my first calls with you, I remember it being so comforting...it was just a no brainer. It's definitely changed my quiet time with the Lord also. I have a deeper communication with Him."
- Tyla
"I haven't felt depressed since I started working with Monica & Remy. I learned to love on myself and I learned that God is for me and not against me."
- Jackie
"One of the things I learned working with Remy & Monica is how to validate pain...I'm super thankful for their program...if you have any doubts, I highly recommend working with them ... to help you with anything you've experienced in life that you feel like you felt like you haven't dealt with it. It's gonna help you to have better relationship with other as well. It's helped me to have closer relationship with others as well."
- Krysti
Forgiving without dismissing pain is only possible once you understand this basic framework.
Without these skills, you’ll find yourself struggling with doubt or suppressing pain.
This will help you move pain through and out of you without getting stuck in resentment.
This will give you the confidence you need to stay out of doubt and frustration
Even if the other person isn’t ready or willing to change
Yes, feelings matter and are good information. It IS possible to FEEL the weight of pain lift and leave.
Lean into this and just watch your heart freely forgive (without force).
It is so simple, not easy. But once you lean into this, watch the dynamic of your relationships change.
Once you learn these skills and lean into them, you will be able to see a snowball effect of healing seeping into even more areas of your life.
…and you want to increase confidence, healthier relationships and impact in your life while decreasing doubt, suppressed pain and offense.
